3 secrets to a long -and happy marriage

张增爱

The old saying holds true: where your attention goes, energy flows. So the next time you’re facing a mountain in your marriage, focus on the next foothold and soon enough you’ll find yourself over the top. The key to marriage lies in the marriage as a love to operate.Many people become married after the change, the character of selfish, dirty life.This is very bad.Here is my understanding of the secret of marriage happiness.
    First of all, two people should have the emotional basis, after at least two or three years of love, each other's temper, habits and life hobbies have a preliminary understanding, when two people quarrel when they can understand each other, to understand why the other angry, so as to better improvement.Second, marriage is not two things, is the two family things, so both sides should each other's loved ones as their loved ones, so that in dealing with family affairs which can be agreed, the family can be harmonious, marriage can be long.Finally, I think marriage is not the grave of love but the lighthouse of love. Even after marriage, but also to the time of love, often out of date, say each other sweet words, travel together, can not live to live, so each will dislike each other.