1. Everybody doesn’t have to love me．无须人人都爱我
Not everyone has to love me or even like me．I don’t necessarily like everybody I know，so why should everybody else like me? I enjoy being liked and being loved，but if somebody doesn’t like me，1 will still be okay and still feel like I am an okay person．I cannot make some-body like me anymore than someone can get me to like them．I don。t need approval all the time．If someone does not approve of me．1 will still be okay．
2.It is okay to make mistakes．犯错误没什么大不了的
Making mistakes is something we all do，and I am still a fine and worthwhile person when I make them．There is no reason for me to get upset when I make a mistake．I am trying，and if I make a mistake，I am going to continue trying．I can handle making a mistake．it is okay for others to make a mistake．too．I will accept my mistakes and also the mistakes that others make
3.Other people are okay and I am okay．互相尊重
People who do things that I don’t like are not necessarily bad people．They should not necessarily be punished just be—cause I don’t like what they do or did．There is no reason why other people should be the way I want them to be，and there is no reason why I should be the way somebody else wants me to be．People will be whatever they want to be，and 1 will be whatever I want to be．I cannot control other people or change them．They are who they are; we all deserve basic respect．
4.I don’t have to control things．我无须控制一切
I will survive if things are different than what 1 want them to be．I can accept things the way they are，accept people the way they are，and accept myself the way I am．There is no reason to get upset if I can’t change things to fit my idea of how they ought to be．There is no reason why I should have to like everything．
Even if I don’t like it，I can live with it．
发表于 2007-9-10 08:58:44