[阅读翻译]Children Learn What They Live

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Children Learn What They Live

If children live with criticism,they learn to condemn.

If children live with hostility,they learn to fight.

If children live with fear,they learn to be apprehensive.

If children live with pity,they learn to feel sorry for themselves

If children live with ridicule,they learn to be shy.

If children live with jealousy,they learn what envy is.

If children live with shame,they learn to feel guilty.

If children live with encouragement,they learn confidence.

If children live with tolerance,they learn patience.

If children live with praise,they learn appreciation.

If children live with acceptance,they learn to find love in the world.


If children live with approval,they learn to like themselves.

If children live with recognition,they learn it is good to have a goal.


If children learn sharing,they learn generosity.

If children live with honesty and fairness,they learn what truth and justice are.

If children live with kindness and consideration,they learn respect.

If children live with security,they learn to have faith in themselves and in those around them.

If children live with friendliness,they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

If children live with serenity,they learn to have peace of mind.

With what are your children living?


by Dorothy Law Nolte
你只需以爱来教养，因为你本身就是爱！
   ——奇迹课程

你给孩子什么样的环境
   指责中长大的孩子，将来容易怨天尤人。
   敌意中长大的孩子，将来容易好斗逞勇。
   恐惧中长大的孩子，将来容易畏首畏尾。
   怜悯中长大的孩子，将来容易自怨自艾。
   嘲讽中长大的孩子，将来容易消极退缩。
   嫉妒中长大的孩子，将来容易钩心斗角。
   羞辱中长大的孩子，将来容易心怀内疚。
   容忍中长大的孩子，将来必能极富耐性。
   鼓励中长大的孩子，将来必能充满自信。
   赞美中长大的孩子，将来必能心存感恩。
   嘉许中长大的孩子，将来必能爱人爱己。
   接纳中长大的孩子，将来必能心胸广大。
   认同中长大的孩子，将来必能掌握目标。
   分享中长大的孩子，将来必能慷慨大方。
   诚实公平中长大的孩子，将来必能维护正义真理。
   安定中长大的孩子，将来必能信任自己、信任他人。
   友善中长大的孩子，将来必能对世界多一份关怀。
   祥和中长大的孩子，将来必能有平和的心境。
   你的孩子是在何种环境下长大的呢？

this is a poem I found it in another forum, maybe you will like it.