[其他]論題討論:Do you believe love at first sight

iampm

We would like to provide a topic for all of us to have a discussion or argument  periodically.Hope everyone of you can join and post your points here.Good points will be given one credit as reward.Free thoughts and sharp views are more appraciated.

Topic for now:

Do You Believe Love at First Sight?

iampm

一個嘗試,希望大家能積極參與


附第一期論題:Is American a Melting Pot or a Salad Bowl?

whether America is a bowl or a pot or a pan  means nothing to me.
but my wife said that Shenzhen is a melting pot with hormone mixtures.
as globalization advancing, cities look less difference.
I'd never been to U.S, so one day when I get there and come back here, my comments will be free of charge to  u alll guys.

iampm

ha,at least thanks for your attendance,不能有空格^_^ and you choose a good example. You do not give a damn to the far far america,but see there is some similarities for us to think about.  Shenzhen,is some kind of America,but just to some extent.It is more like a nouveau riche. The whole city are pervade with the stink of money.People come to America totally from different cultures,regions,ethics,bringing their own own traits,their own individuality,which form a mosaic America.But what do the people search for?what individuality they still retain? Maybe they try to keep some substance,but what they demostrate is treat differences as enemies.It still needs a long way to go and America has gone a painful and persistent process.....wow,i lost point to much and hope i can get to the right way next time....got to go now(anyway,i strongly do not like shenzhen,and i am waiting for your arguement,heh)

Shenzhen's playing an important role in the reformation  as

well as a strong part of the economy of China.That's too big a

concept to talk about but we still need to pay attention to it

since it somehow has connection with our lives. People in

Shenzen are very practicle and hardworking and being a

millionaire is the dream of many people.Sometimes they pay too

much attention to this dream that they become blinded by

gain.All things seem to be marketable such as love,friendship

etc..People say that the warranty period for love(between man

and woman) is just a few weeks. People come here and they

change. So many lonely souls wanderng in the glittering night

of this city; so many heart-broken men and women sobbing for

their lost love.
  
We have to accept the fact that all things are

changing,skyscrapers,the shops,the streets,the people. It is not

something we can say that I love this city or I hate this

city. We just see a small part of it and this part represent

the whole city in our mind. If you lost your beloved in this

city or get some terrible experience,then this is a city of

hell,if not ,then it maybe your paradise(somehow,not all).
  
I've been in Shenzhen for years and found it just a place to

work,to earn money.
  
It's not a strange thing to see  that unmarried yong people living

together and making love freely.They don't pay much attention

to the future.They enjoy that pleasure to relax from the

occupational stress. Though it's not necessary to say that morality is gone with

the wind it's just like McDonald's slogan:They are loving it.After all, city is not a

place of innocence.
  
Drinking, Working,Happying,Sexing and what else can you do?

iampm

one point for your crisp and  incisive judgement on Shenzhen;)

Does anyone have other veiws?
Maybe i should change the title of this post---]Your opinions on the fast growing city--Shenzhen....

iampm

Do you believe that or you just hope that...

pcBook

Only I believe Love at First Sight is not enough , how you can find a girl that she believe love at first sight , and she is also looking at you ?

iampm

下面是引用pcBook于2004-09-25 10:51 PM发表的 :
Only I believe Love at First Sight is not enough , how you can find a girl that she believe love at first sight , and she is also looking at you ?

wow,that's really depressing*_*but how can you expect a crush love if  you even do not believe this thread
i was thinking if i say yes based on fiction or something,no one will be convinced.And all people around us talk about this---is it just because they've never experienced that?How can you see through someone just by a sight?How can we just see through one's soul only by a glimpse and makes you think he/she is just the one?

YES, I do.

physical appeal just reveals that we are human being  instead of saints, as well as we are not pure human, but we are also part of the animal world, where physical quality is bound to be a critical aspect of choosing partner to breed the next generation.

iampm

不能有空格,do you think you lost kind of point after typing 'YES'~？

I don't believe that.I think that steady felling need touch with each other in a long time.

iampm

In fact I still hope i believe this,an evidence of which also proves  i still believe in love.

i definitely agree that the love fall in a glimpse , for the first sight. though someone said they loved as they know each other, while the love is springing since once you saw her oe him, or just a feeling he gives you, that is a glimpse, a moment, while you are not realizing that.

tycoon

all of sudden a pure and sweet girl comes in front of your eyes. you are fascinated by her beauty. we cannot define whether it comes from visual or emotional instinct. anyway love at first sight bring us pleasure and comfort

乔豆

I agree with tycoon, yes, love at first sight is really very good  flesh feeling.

iampm

heh,we are all romantic creture;))

mofeisite

it is just a feeling , not real love! real love is heart to heart, love at first sight is just eyes to eyes.

iampm

bu it is also a stumulation which may arouse your love feeling

love at first sight is romantic,

last time when I was in Hong Kong, I saw a beautiful lady, and I was like in a sudden falling in love with her.

But she disappeared at my second glance

and now, what about love at last sight?