那些花儿……致方晓

My heart is aching though four months passed since I fell in love with him---Fangxiao( his pen name)

It is a mistake. It could only be gone with wind forever and forever. Because I am married, I could not be an irresponsible partner for my husband. In fact, I somehow like and even love Fangxiao, but I could not admit it and I know I should not love him even for a little bit.

Someone said:\" It takes a life time to forget someone but only one second to love someone.\" Maybe it is true or maybe it is not.

I'm a Christian. I could not do such a thing that God dislike and ask us not to. So now I could only think of him in my heart. And hope when time flies year by year, it could only be a short memory in my life.

Anyway, I did wrong this time not only for me but also for my husband and even for him. God, please forgive me and save me. God, please lead me a right way to go on. God, please forgive him, too. God, please.

hola

Everyone has daydreams and there is mothing wrong with this, l think.There is only a problem when you forget where dreams and the real world begins. Try to get out more and find some friends in the real world; setting at home recalling over him won't help you. So you need to find interests and other people of your own age to talk to. You'll be happy to Save the best for everlasting !

Dear hola,

Thanks for your kindly words.

You are right. Past could only be past. Nobody could change. I have to face the fact and face myself. Romantic dreams do not exist in the real world. Thank you, friend.

May you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

Helena

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May you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

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下面是引用helena_oqs于2005-12-22 23:28发表的那些花儿……致方晓:
My heart is aching though four months passed since I fell in love with him---Fangxiao( his pen name)

It is a mistake. It could only be gone with wind forever and forever. Because I am married, I could not be an irresponsible partner for my husband. In fact, I somehow like and even love Fangxiao, but I could not admit it and I know I should not love him even for a little bit.

Someone said:" It takes a life time to forget someone but only one second to love someone." Maybe it is true or maybe it is not.
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Does your husband love u ? Maybe,you should learn to cherish and forget Fang.

hola

A big hello to you all! Thanking you for regard!
So gald to see you being out of your quandary.Here you do your like that what you can be and meet many frends too. No soon you'll feel better and better. Anyway  thanking you talk openly to each other about your feelings.
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!