drive at即try to say,指「想要说」,或「意思是」,例如﹕
I listened attentively to his long rambling speech, but could not make out
what he was driving at.
我注意倾听他杂乱无章的冗长发言,但不明白他指的是甚么(An English-Chinese
Dictionary of Idioms)
因此,what are you driving at即what are you trying to say,指「你究竟是指
甚么」,例如﹕
What are you driving at﹖You must explain yourself more clearly!
你这话究竟是甚么意思呢﹖你必须好好解释清楚﹗